Sex & CommunicationThat’s all that matters when you think about it. It’s so simple right? WRONG. Some relationships are based only on sex, but can’t communicate, can’t share dreams can’t support. Relationship - Communication + Sex = no progress. But those that lack good SEX and intimacy are just as doomed. For some reason, not having an inner-freak to keep the man or woman there passionately makes a huge difference. So we cheat, no we fuck up something good, and try to fix it, only because we can’t TALK to each other. Relationship + Communication - Sex= cheating. People just can’t and won’t be real with each other. He just wants to tell her that sex is what he needs but the lines of communication don’t work, so they crash. No, better yet, they’re just wasting time. No, she talks to him but the sex just doesn’t respond the way he needs it too. One way communication. I find myself happy to talk about these kinds of struggles because they are REAL and I’m not the type to get caught up in fantasies and fairy tales. The world is too evil for that. COMMUNICATION. It’s everything you need to stay strong, well at least half of it. SEX will keep you coming back for more. She has it, but hasn’t fully given it too him so he’s half in and half out of both of the NEEDS. So is he cheating himself, wasting time, or …ONCE AGAIN THIS ISN’T ABOUT ME. It’s a mystery. That is what most of us find ourselves in when it comes to relations/relationships. All we ask for is sex and communication. What else is needed ya know? You talk, grow, and share passion. Is that so hard to understand? But here’s the thing… You can’t give sex and communication to more than one person because it won’t work out. So if you’re struggling with this or in need of comprehension if you’re not getting it, you probably wont, if you cant communicate. If you’re just THE ONE then why can’t you get it? Thoughts?Most of us aren’t the only one. There are more. Think about it, if he had ONE girl he would be focused enough to give her the world, but who’s dealing with ONE these days? You end up spreading affection and attention to many, leaving each with less than 100%. But when all they’re getting is a small dose and they think they’re the one, shit becomes confusing and the it all comes falling down *no Kanye*. You get my vision? Equal parts SEX and COMMUNICATION. We’re young, we make mistakes, then we grow. THAT’S REAL. So I know that’s all I’m searching for. If you’re only getting 1 of the 2, why not keep it moving? If you’ve got em both, hold on to it.
